Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Vote Dheyneee....????

ވޯޓު ދޭނީ އާސަންދައަށް ބައި ސަންދައަކަށްނޫން
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ދަތުރު ފަތުރަށް އަނގަމަތި މަސްދޯންޏަކުން 3000 ރުފިޔާ ދީފައި ޖެހިގެން އޮންނަ ރަށަށް ދާކަށްނޫން
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ އެއްދަންފަޅިއަށް. 4 ދަންފަޅިއަކަށްނޫން
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ 5 ދުވަހުން މާސިންގާ ބިންހިއްކުމަށް. 30 އަހަރުން ކައިވަތަކަށް ނޫން
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ މަހުޖަނުންގެ އިންކަމް ޓެކްހަށް. 70 މިލިއަނަށް ރިސޯޓް ތަކާ އެއްޗެހި ވިއްކާފައި ދައުލަތަށް އެންމެ ލޯލާރިއެއްވެސް ދޭން ދެކޮޅު ހަދާކަށް ނޫން
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ދާއިމީ ބައްޔަށް ހިފެހެއްޓުމެއް ނެތި ބޭސްކުރެވޭގޮތަށް. ދާއިމީ ބައްޔެއްވުމުން މަރުވަންދެން ތެޅޭކަށް ނޫން. 
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ފްލެޓަށް، ގެދޮރަށް. އަލިފާންފޮށީގައި ކޮތަރު ކޮށީގައި އުޅޭކަށްނޫން.
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ރާއްޖޭގެ އެހެން ކަންކޮޅުތަކުގައިވެސް ސިޓީ ހެދުމަށް. އަތޮޅުތެރޭގައި ސިޓީއަށް ނޫނެކޭ ބުނާކަށް ނޫން. 
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ރަށުޖީބަށް ޑޮލަރަށް ގެސްޓް ހައުސަށް. މަހުޖަހުން ޑޮލަރު ބައްކޮށްގެން ބްލެކްގައި ވިއްކާކަށްނޫން
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ 40 އެތައް މިސްކިތެއް މަރާމާތު ކޮށް އިމާރާތްކުރުމަށް. 30 އަހަރު 3 މިސްކިތް މަރާމާތު ކުރާކަށް ނޫން. 
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ އިސްލާމިކް ބޭންކަށް. އިސްލާމިކް ބޭންކެއް ނެތިގެން ގޮދަޑިދޮށުގައި ލާރި ފޮރުވާކަށްނުން. 
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ގުޅިފަޅު، ތިލަފަޅު ފަދަ މެގަރ ޕްރޮޖެކްޓްތަކަށް. ބަރަވެލި ސްޕީޑްގައި މެގަ ޕްރޮޖެކްޓްގެ ހުވަފެން ބަލާކަށްނޫން. 
ވޯޓު ދޭނީ ތަރައްގީއަށް، ރައްޔިތުންނަށް. ސަރުކާރު ބައިއަޅާ އަމިއްލަ ޖީބަށް ބަރުކުރާކަށް ނޫން. 

Friday, August 2, 2013

A guy walks into a bookstore. Not looking for anything in particular. On his way to the back of the store, he spots something of interest. A book with a very interesting title, "Dating for the New Millennium. What Women Want." So he picks it up and opens it to a random page. "Chapter 1 The First Date." He glances the chapter over for a few minutes, and rushes out of the bookstore to call a girl he's wanted to ask out for quite a while. When he gets home, picks up the phone and calls her. She answers, "Hello?" He says, "Hi, Jessica? Listen, I was wondering if you would want to go see a movie with me tonight?" She says, "Sure, I don't see anything wrong with that." He gets excited. He thought she'd say, "No Way!" but she didn't. So, he decided to take it one step further. He asks, "Great, well how about dinner before the movie?" She replies, "Sure, that would be great too!" "Fine, I'll pick you up about 9, you should be finished eating by then.

A Man With A mission - Mohamed Nasheed ( Anni )

Saturday, July 27, 2013

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS...

MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS...

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat
 down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. If you are not in a relationship now, remember this for the second (or third) time around. It's never too late.

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. 

Friday, July 26, 2013

Be Grateful to Your Mother



1. Your mother carried you for 9 months bearing pain upon pain.
2. During this time, she could not eat becuase of you !
She could not sleep because of you !
3. When you were a baby, she spent every minute of her life looking after you !
4. She only slept when you slept !
She only ate after you had eaten !
5. She was patient and loved you even when you cried all night and when you cried all day !
6. She taught you how to walk,
how to speak, how to eat, she taught you how to live !
7. When you fall ill, she looks after you !
8. She always cooks and prepared food for you !
9. She buys you whatever you ask for !
10. She loves you unconditionally !

Lov yu mom

Be Grateful to Your Mother



1. Your mother carried you for 9 months bearing pain upon pain.
2. During this time, she could not eat becuase of you !
She could not sleep because of you !
3. When you were a baby, she spent every minute of her life looking after you !
4. She only slept when you slept !
She only ate after you had eaten !
5. She was patient and loved you even when you cried all night and when you cried all day !
6. She taught you how to walk,
how to speak, how to eat, she taught you how to live !
7. When you fall ill, she looks after you !
8. She always cooks and prepared food for you !
9. She buys you whatever you ask for !
10. She loves you unconditionally !

Lov yu mom

My Heart Will Go On" Ringtone to your Cell

My Heart Will Go On" Ringtone to your Cell
Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you
That is how I know you go on.
Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have come to show you go on

Near...
Far...
Wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more...
You open the door
And you're here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go till we're gone
Love was when I loved you
One true time I hold to
In my life we'll always go on

Near...
Far...
Wherever you are
I believe that
The heart does go on
Once more...
You open the door
And you're here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

You're here
There's nothing I fear
And I know that
My heart will go on
We'll stay
Forever this way
He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you......

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

I Don't know why you are so special to me? Why I like you? Why I care for you? Why I always think of you? Among your friends I care for you the most. but because I know that's all I am to you. im glad to have you but losing you would make me sad. I know you don't need me nor do I want you bad. its just that you the best I ever had. I fear that someday time would keep us apart and you might forget about me but before it happens I hope that you have felt even for a single chance I cared for you the best way I know. why is it so east to fall in love,but yet so hard to fall in love if its you I cant have.

5 Types Of Men Who Make Great Husbands

5 Types Of Men Who Make Great Husbands

1. The Provider
He puts family first, always. He can’t rest until he knows the ones he loves are okay. “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because of what Allah has preferred one with over the other and because of what they spend to support them from their wealth.”
[Sûrah an-Nisâ’: 34]

2. The Rock
At your weakest moments, his strength keeps you stable and inspires you to push through. He’s the kind of man who never misses your call when he knows you need to discuss something important, or better, just a friend to be there for you. 

3. The Critical Thinker
There isn’t a problem, big or small, that he isn’t itching to solve. He is patient, because he has to be — rushing things is rarely the answer and he knows this.

4. The Believer
He’s God-fearing and he’s proud of his strong beliefs. He thinks positively. He’s a fighter, and he will fight with you and for your marriage. He won’t give up, even when you do. He has most likely chosen a career he loves over one that pays all the bills. Therefore he’s just as passionate about his work as is about his family!

5. The Free Spirit 
Spending time with this man never gets old. With him, there’s never a dull moment at home, he tries to keep life exciting. Spending the rest of your life with the same person, doing many of the same things, can be as boring or as exciting as you make it. Marrying this man ensures that one pitfall your marriage won’t ever fall into is that of pure and utter boredom. It sounds simple, but it’s so important.
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1. The Provider
He puts family first, always. He can’t rest until he knows the ones he loves are okay. “Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because of what Allah has preferred one with over the other and because of what they spend to support them from their wealth.”
[Sûrah an-Nisâ’: 34]

2. The Rock
At your weakest moments, his strength keeps you stable and inspires you to push through. He’s the kind of man who never misses your call when he knows you need to discuss something important, or better, just a friend to be there for you.

3. The Critical Thinker
There isn’t a problem, big or small, that he isn’t itching to solve. He is patient, because he has to be — rushing things is rarely the answer and he knows this.

4. The Believer
He’s God-fearing and he’s proud of his strong beliefs. He thinks positively. He’s a fighter, and he will fight with you and for your marriage. He won’t give up, even when you do. He has most likely chosen a career he loves over one that pays all the bills. Therefore he’s just as passionate about his work as is about his family!

5. The Free Spirit
Spending time with this man never gets old. With him, there’s never a dull moment at home, he tries to keep life exciting. Spending the rest of your life with the same person, doing many of the same things, can be as boring or as exciting as you make it. Marrying this man ensures that one pitfall your marriage won’t ever fall into is that of pure and utter boredom. It sounds simple, but it’s so important.
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My wife and I were watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed.
I turned to her and said, 'Do you want to have Sex?'
'No,' she answered.
I then said, 'Is that your final answer?'

... She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying, 'Yes..'
So I said, "Then I'd like to phone a friend."

And that's when the fight started...

________________________________

I took my wife to a restaurant.

The waiter, for some reason, took my order first.

"I'll have the rump steak, rare, please."
He said, "Aren't you worried about the mad cow?"
"Nah, she can order for herself."

And that's when the fight started.....

_____________________________

My wife and I were sitting at a table at her high school
reunion, and she kept staring at a drunken man swigging his
drink as he sat alone at a nearby table.

I asked her, "Do you know him?"
"Yes", she sighed,
"He's my old boyfriend. I understand he took to drinking
right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear he
hasn't been sober since."

"My God!" I said, "Who would think a person could go on
celebrating that long?"

And then the fight started...

________________________________

When our lawn mower broke and wouldn't run, my wife kept hinting to me that I should get it fixed.
But, somehow I always had something else to take care of first, the shed, the boat,
making beer.. Always something more important to me.

Finally she thought of a clever way to make her point.
When I arrived home one day, I found her seated in the tall grass, busily snipping away with a tiny pair of sewing
scissors. I watched silently for a short time and then went into
the house. I was gone only a minute, and when I came out again
I handed her a toothbrush.

I said, "When you finish cutting the
grass, you might as well sweep the driveway."

The doctors say I will walk again, but I will always have a limp.

_____________________________

My wife sat down next to me as I was flipping channels.
She asked, "What's on TV?"
I said, "Dust."

And then the fight started...

________________________________

Saturday morning I got up early, quietly dressed, made my lunch, and slipped quietly into the garage. I hooked up the
boat up to the van and proceeded to back out into a torrential 
downpour. The wind was blowing 50 mph, so I pulled back into the garage, turned on the radio, and discovered that the weather
would be bad all day.

I went back into the house, quietly undressed, and slipped back into bed. I cuddled up to my wife's back;
now with a different anticipation,
and whispered, "The weather out there is terrible."

My loving wife of 5 years replied, "And, can you believe my stupid husband is out fishing in that?"

And that's how the fight started...

_______________________________

My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary.
She said, "I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 150 in about 3 seconds."

I bought her a bathroom scale.

And then the fight started......

______________________________

After retiring, I went to the Social Security office to apply
for Social Security. The woman behind the counter asked me 

for my driver's License to verify my age. I looked in my pockets 

and realized I had left my wallet at home. I told the woman that 

I was very sorry, but I would have to go home and come back later.

The woman said, 'Unbutton your shirt'.
So I opened my shirt revealing my curly silver hair.

She said, 'That silver hair on your chest is proof enough for me' and she processed my Social Security application.

When I got home, I excitedly told my wife about my experience at the Social Security office.

She said, 'You should have dropped
your pants. You might have gotten disability too.'

And then the fight started...

________________________________

My wife was standing nude, looking in the bedroom mirror.

She was not happy with what she saw and said to me,
"I feel horrible; I look old, fat and ugly. I really need you
to pay me a compliment.'

I replied, "Your eyesight's damn near perfect."

And then the fight started........

________________________________

I rear-ended a car this morning...the start of a REALLY bad day!

The driver got out of the other car, and he was a DWARF!!
He looked up at me and said 'I am NOT Happy!'
So I said, 'Well, which one ARE you then?'

That's how the fight started.

________________________________

One year, I decided to buy my mother-in-law a cemetery plot
as a Christmas gift...

The next year, I didn't buy her a gift.
When she asked me why, I replied,
"Well, you still haven't used the gift I bought you last year!"

And that's how the fight started.
My wife and I were watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed.
I turned to her and said, 'Do you want to have Sex?'
'No,' she answered.

I then said, 'Is that your final answer?'

... She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying, 'Yes..'
So I said, "Then I'd like to phone a friend."

And that's when the fight started...

________________________________

I took my wife to a restaurant.

The waiter, for some reason, took my order first.

"I'll have the rump steak, rare, please."
He said, "Aren't you worried about the mad cow?"
"Nah, she can order for herself."

And that's when the fight started.....

_____________________________

My wife and I were sitting at a table at her high school
reunion, and she kept staring at a drunken man swigging his
drink as he sat alone at a nearby table.

I asked her, "Do you know him?"
"Yes", she sighed,
"He's my old boyfriend. I understand he took to drinking
right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear he
hasn't been sober since."

"My God!" I said, "Who would think a person could go on
celebrating that long?"

And then the fight started...

________________________________

When our lawn mower broke and wouldn't run, my wife kept hinting to me that I should get it fixed.
But, somehow I always had something else to take care of first, the shed, the boat,
making beer.. Always something more important to me.

Finally she thought of a clever way to make her point.
When I arrived home one day, I found her seated in the tall grass, busily snipping away with a tiny pair of sewing
scissors. I watched silently for a short time and then went into
the house. I was gone only a minute, and when I came out again
I handed her a toothbrush.

I said, "When you finish cutting the
grass, you might as well sweep the driveway."

The doctors say I will walk again, but I will always have a limp.

_____________________________

My wife sat down next to me as I was flipping channels.
She asked, "What's on TV?"
I said, "Dust."

And then the fight started...

________________________________

Saturday morning I got up early, quietly dressed, made my lunch, and slipped quietly into the garage. I hooked up the
boat up to the van and proceeded to back out into a torrential
downpour. The wind was blowing 50 mph, so I pulled back into the garage, turned on the radio, and discovered that the weather
would be bad all day.

I went back into the house, quietly undressed, and slipped back into bed. I cuddled up to my wife's back;
now with a different anticipation,
and whispered, "The weather out there is terrible."

My loving wife of 5 years replied, "And, can you believe my stupid husband is out fishing in that?"

And that's how the fight started...

_______________________________

My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary.
She said, "I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 150 in about 3 seconds."

I bought her a bathroom scale.

And then the fight started......

______________________________

After retiring, I went to the Social Security office to apply
for Social Security. The woman behind the counter asked me

for my driver's License to verify my age. I looked in my pockets

and realized I had left my wallet at home. I told the woman that

I was very sorry, but I would have to go home and come back later.

The woman said, 'Unbutton your shirt'.
So I opened my shirt revealing my curly silver hair.

She said, 'That silver hair on your chest is proof enough for me' and she processed my Social Security application.

When I got home, I excitedly told my wife about my experience at the Social Security office.

She said, 'You should have dropped
your pants. You might have gotten disability too.'

And then the fight started...

________________________________

My wife was standing nude, looking in the bedroom mirror.

She was not happy with what she saw and said to me,
"I feel horrible; I look old, fat and ugly. I really need you
to pay me a compliment.'

I replied, "Your eyesight's damn near perfect."

And then the fight started........

________________________________

I rear-ended a car this morning...the start of a REALLY bad day!

The driver got out of the other car, and he was a DWARF!!
He looked up at me and said 'I am NOT Happy!'
So I said, 'Well, which one ARE you then?'

That's how the fight started.

________________________________

One year, I decided to buy my mother-in-law a cemetery plot
as a Christmas gift...

The next year, I didn't buy her a gift.
When she asked me why, I replied,
"Well, you still haven't used the gift I bought you last year!"

And that's how the fight started.

Friday, July 12, 2013

Biggest Relationship Mistakes

#15 Forgetting to Be Friends
The root of a healthy relationship is friendship. Don't let your romance (or lack thereof) make you forget that.
#14 Intentionally Saying Hurtful Things
This is a tactic that some people just didn't grow out of after high school like they should have. Even when you are arguing with each other, don't say things that you know will hurt them. Don't disrespect them or say something that could affect them negatively.
#13 Not Resolving Conflict
It's become pretty popular to avoid saying "I'm sorry" at all costs these days. This may work for you if you'd like to make your partner feel terrible, but owning up to your mistakes will be worth it for both of you.
#12 Can't Handle Distance
It is not uncommon for someone to have a job that takes them far away at times. Some people are not cut out for a relationship like this but will make the mistake of trying to stick with it anyway. It may seem brutal to break it off because you can't handle the distance, but in the end you will only be saving each other from years of misery.
#11 No Romance
Sure, feeling like you're in a chick flick can be pretty cheesy, but sometimes it's those cheesy little moments that really show your partner that you care.
#10 Not Handling Embarrassment
A lot of people will accept being with someone that makes them feel embarrassed, or worse, someone that is embarrassed to be seen with them. Don't sell yourself short just because you're afraid of being alone. You owe them and yourself the respect to get out.
#9 Not Compromising
Let him pick where you go to eat if you get to pick the movie or vice versa. In the end, neither of you will really care what you did that day, but you'll always remember that you were both willing to do something just because the other person likes it.
#8 Not Being on the Same Page
Some couples have a problem with one person feeling more committed than the other. The best way to ensure this problem never arises is to make sure you're on the same page about everything. Talk it out, assure your partner of how you feel about them.
#7 Not Seeing Things From Their View
You need empathy to get through any other relationship in your life -- with co-workers, your family, your friends -- why should it be different with your partner?
#6 Making Assumptions
One of the biggest assumptions made in a relationship is thinking that your partner is a certain way just because you met someone else that's that way too. The whole "all guys/girls are the same" idea gets old fast.
#5 Pretending to Like Things You Don't
This is a textbook mistake that people have been making since the beginning of time! Be with someone that shares your interests or at least someone that respect your differences, you will be much happier.
#4 Expecting Things to Change
This is a hard lesson for some people to learn, but you can't change your boyfriend/girlfriend. Only they can do that and only when they decide to. If you're waiting it out, expecting something wonderful to happen, you're only wasting your time.
#3 Constant Fighting
You may have been raised to think that men and women are supposed to fight like cats and dogs, but this is far from true. If you find yourself fighting nearly every day just to make yourself heard, it's probably time to head out or send your partner packing.
#2 Avoiding the Issues
Couples that argue all the time are not healthy, however couples that never discuss the tough issues may be worse. If you both keep sweeping problems under the rug and pretending to be happy, the downfall may be drastic.
#1 Expecting Marriage to Fix Everything
Too many couples hurry to the alter expecting it to magically fix everything. Marriage certainly can feel magical sometimes, but it does not make life suddenly perfect.

Biggest Relationship Mistakes



#15 Forgetting to Be Friends
The root of a healthy relationship is friendship. Don't let your romance (or lack thereof) make you forget that.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/efebc65148b2936fc79629692080acfb.600x

#14 Intentionally Saying Hurtful Things
This is a tactic that some people just didn't grow out of after high school like they should have. Even when you are arguing with each other, don't say things that you know will hurt them. Don't disrespect them or say something that could affect them negatively.http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/c6323a2f55d461b886709f4b96da2329.600x

#13 Not Resolving Conflict
It's become pretty popular to avoid saying "I'm sorry" at all costs these days. This may work for you if you'd like to make your partner feel terrible, but owning up to your mistakes will be worth it for both of you.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/6fc132bce0f1ab896c939cd420927c05.600x

#12 Can't Handle Distance
It is not uncommon for someone to have a job that takes them far away at times. Some people are not cut out for a relationship like this but will make the mistake of trying to stick with it anyway. It may seem brutal to break it off because you can't handle the distance, but in the end you will only be saving each other from years of misery.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/78dedef07acf12ce9593299c1e5b37f0.600x

#11 No Romance
Sure, feeling like you're in a chick flick can be pretty cheesy, but sometimes it's those cheesy little moments that really show your partner that you care.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/52378f2dc5739c20e29d0a243d547efe.600x

#10 Not Handling Embarrassment
A lot of people will accept being with someone that makes them feel embarrassed, or worse, someone that is embarrassed to be seen with them. Don't sell yourself short just because you're afraid of being alone. You owe them and yourself the respect to get out.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/e8b000fee714cd61dfc709dbfed3b45a.600x

#9 Not Compromising
Let him pick where you go to eat if you get to pick the movie or vice versa. In the end, neither of you will really care what you did that day, but you'll always remember that you were both willing to do something just because the other person likes it.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/fc5947d14cf8970dd0dcaa16cf82d17c.600x

#8 Not Being on the Same Page
Some couples have a problem with one person feeling more committed than the other. The best way to ensure this problem never arises is to make sure you're on the same page about everything. Talk it out, assure your partner of how you feel about them.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/94476515f1a7bbdfa934c7292cb3787f.600x

#7 Not Seeing Things From Their View
You need empathy to get through any other relationship in your life -- with co-workers, your family, your friends -- why should it be different with your partner?
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/cca4441f068de9685fc2b290376c7120.600x

#6 Making Assumptions
One of the biggest assumptions made in a relationship is thinking that your partner is a certain way just because you met someone else that's that way too. The whole "all guys/girls are the same" idea gets old fast.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/0cc07b7a5cce3d6de10d43c26dcbc7ef.600x

#5 Pretending to Like Things You Don't
This is a textbook mistake that people have been making since the beginning of time! Be with someone that shares your interests or at least someone that respect your differences, you will be much happier.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/1a0707bda855d5c3996e60811a892fba.600x

#4 Expecting Things to Change
This is a hard lesson for some people to learn, but you can't change your boyfriend/girlfriend. Only they can do that and only when they decide to. If you're waiting it out, expecting something wonderful to happen, you're only wasting your time.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/a41714981ad85033fae98eac6868962c.600x

#3 Constant Fighting
You may have been raised to think that men and women are supposed to fight like cats and dogs, but this is far from true. If you find yourself fighting nearly every day just to make yourself heard, it's probably time to head out or send your partner packing.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/174910c3a79b4feab3a64bfcd27df459.600x

#2 Avoiding the Issues
Couples that argue all the time are not healthy, however couples that never discuss the tough issues may be worse. If you both keep sweeping problems under the rug and pretending to be happy, the downfall may be drastic.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/7d0263b900c3e70841f067bd1eac075f.600x

#1 Expecting Marriage to Fix Everything
Too many couples hurry to the alter expecting it to magically fix everything. Marriage certainly can feel magical sometimes, but it does not make life suddenly perfect.
http://i.likes-media.com/uimg/2047fb3cc081d33921dc84dc41bef20d.600x


Thursday, July 4, 2013

Beautiful story.....

A very poor man lived with his 
wife...

One day, his wife, who had very
long hair asked him to buy her a
comb for her hair to grow well and
to be well-groomed...

The man felt very sorry and said,
"NO"

He explained that he did not even
have enough money to fix the
strap of his watch he had just
broken...

She did not insist on her request..

The man went to work and passed
by a watch shop,
sold his damaged watch at a low
price and went to buy a comb for
his wife...

He came home in the evening with
the comb in his hand ready to give
to his wife...

He was surprised when he saw his
wife with a very short hair cut..

She had sold her hair and was
holding a new watch band..

Tears flowed simultaneously from
their eyes,
not for the futility of their actions..,
but, for the reciprocity of their
love...

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

ނަޝީދުވެރިކަމައް އަރަންކުފޫހަމަނުވާކަން އެނގޭނީ މިސުވާލުތަކައް ޖަވާބު ދިނީމަ.

1-މިގައުމުގަ މަސްތުވާތަކެތީގެ ވިޔަފާރި ފެއްޓީނަޝީދު ވެރިކަމުގަތޯ؟
2-މިގައުމުގަ މީހުންގަޔައްވަޅިޖަހަންފެއްޓީ ނަޝީދުގެ ވެރިކަމުގަތޯ؟
3-މީހުންނައް ލާއިންސާނީ ބޮޑެތި އަނިޔާތައްދޭންފެއްޓީ ނަޝީދުގެ ވެރިކަމުގަތޯ؟
4-ކޮރަޕްޓެޑް ފަނޑިޔާރުންނާހެދި ގެއްލުނުހުރިހާ ފުރާނައެއްގެ ޒިންމާ ނަގަންޖެހެނީ ނަޝީދުތޯ؟
5-ބަގާވާތަކުން ވެރިކަމައް އައި ނަޝީދުތޯ؟
6-އައިރުގާނޫނީ ސަރުކާރުގެ ހޯމްމިނިސްޓަރުކަން ކުރީ ކާކުތޯ؟ނަޝީދުތޯ؟
7-މިގައުމުގެ ރައްޔަތުންގެ ތެރެއިން އިސްލާމްދީންގަބޫލްނުކުރާމީހުން އިސްލާމްދީންގަބޫލްނުކުރަނީ ނަޝީދުބުނެގެންތޯ ނޫނީ އަމިއްލަޔައްތޯ؟

ނަޝީދުވެރިކަމައް އަރަންކުފޫހަމަނުވާކަން އެނގޭނީ މިސުވާލުތަކައް ޖަވާބު ދިނީމަ.

1-މިގައުމުގަ މަސްތުވާތަކެތީގެ ވިޔަފާރި ފެއްޓީނަޝީދު ވެރިކަމުގަތޯ؟
2-މިގައުމުގަ މީހުންގަޔައްވަޅިޖަހަންފެއްޓީ ނަޝީދުގެ ވެރިކަމުގަތޯ؟
3-މީހުންނައް ލާއިންސާނީ ބޮޑެތި އަނިޔާތައްދޭންފެއްޓީ ނަޝީދުގެ ވެރިކަމުގަތޯ؟
4-ކޮރަޕްޓެޑް ފަނޑިޔާރުންނާހެދި ގެއްލުނުހުރިހާ ފުރާނައެއްގެ ޒިންމާ ނަގަންޖެހެނީ ނަޝީދުތޯ؟
5-ބަގާވާތަކުން ވެރިކަމައް އައި ނަޝީދުތޯ؟
6-އައިރުގާނޫނީ ސަރުކާރުގެ ހޯމްމިނިސްޓަރުކަން ކުރީ ކާކުތޯ؟ނަޝީދުތޯ؟
7-މިގައުމުގެ ރައްޔަތުންގެ ތެރެއިން އިސްލާމްދީންގަބޫލްނުކުރާމީހުން އިސްލާމްދީންގަބޫލްނުކުރަނީ ނަޝީދުބުނެގެންތޯ ނޫނީ އަމިއްލަޔައްތޯ؟