1. SMS her some love during the day. 2. Help her fill in her 12-hugs-a-day tank with lots of hugs (and kisses). 3. Say "I love you" when you meet and when you say good-bye. 4. Mark special dates on your calendar. There are not that many dates to remember: mainly her birthday and your wedding anniversary. But if you really want to be a super husband, remember the date that you first became a couple. 5. When she is upset, listen to her but do not try to give advice (unless she asks for it). 6. Tell her how much you love to touch and smell her. 7. Invite her to a movie or a restaurant like you would have if you were dating. 8. Write her love notes and put them in places where she would not expect to find them, like inside the laundry basket, on the mirror in the bathroom, inside her wallet. 9. Shower the kids or read them a story. I have to say that having watched my husband doing these things for many years with our children makes me love him more and more everyday. It is such a simple, beautiful thing to see father and kids reading a story together, that it makes the entire family happy. 10. Tell her "I trust you to…" Any positive ending to this sentence works miracles in any relationship. Count how many times you say this phrase during your relationship and I am sure you will find it much easier to spend many happy years together. 11. Stay cool when she is having a long phone conversation with her girlfriend, mom or sister. These phone calls are a way for her to work things out and get emotional support. They are good for you… 12. Hold her hand even when there are people around. It is a public display of affection and this is important to her.